Likely my recipe is on one of these threads somewhere, but my recipes are mostly all "in progress".
I don't use the corn bread mixes - way too much flour and leavening. Most mixes are 50/50, mine is more like 80/20. I also use plain meal and flour.
Don't forget: southern flour for quick breads and biscuits (soft wheat = very little gluten)
Northern flour for yeast breads (hard wheat = lots of gluten)
You really need one of the small cast iron pans for cornbread. The heat retention makes a huge difference in the way the sugars make a chewy crust. Some of the ones shaped like an ear of corn are small enough to fit in a rolling house.
Mostly or all plain cornmeal (getting harder to find)
just a dash of baking powder, baking soda and salt
Sugar - I usually use brown
Grated cheddar cheese
Cream corn - fresh is better but canned is fine
Fat - oil works, but lard has more flavor. The creamed corn allows you to cut back on the fats, so I recommend the lard.
Buttermilk
Bacon
Jalapeños
Butter
First crank up the oven to Hot.
Then put the pan in your hot oven to get hot
Then mix dry ingredients and measure lard, cheese and corn
Get a stick of butter out of the fridge
Remove from oven and drop 1/3 slice of bacon in each cup
Return to hot oven and cook until almost done
Remove from oven and drop a couple of jalapeños slices
into each cup to cook in the bacon grease while you,
Combine remaining ingredients and enough buttermilk to achieve the right consistency
Pour in the batter and return to the hot oven until done
Slice, butter and eat.