Ulysses wrote: ↑Sun May 09, 2021 1:48 am
I've been thinking of getting a dog.
Never had one as an adult, although I do like them.
Any suggestions?
Most people who get dogs and are unhappy with them fail in one of two ways. They either: (1) get a very nice and appropriate dog and don't bother to train it; or (2)pick a dog that isn't appropriate for what they want to do with it or the conditions in which they live.
It doesn't much matter if the dog is purebred or mutt, s/he can be the greatest friend and companion ever if it's the right dog and well-trained.
"Trained" doesn't mean doing a lot of fancy stuff. It means being well-socialized, knowing how to behave in all the circumstances it encounters, walking peacefully on a leash, and reliably responding to at least the "7 common commands" of SIT, STAY, DOWN, COME, OFF, HEEL, and NO. Getting a professional trainer early on will pay for itself in the long run.
If a person gets the wrong dog for their needs, the relationship probably won't work. Working dogs gotta have a job. Little frou-frou dogs don't make very good hiking companions. Jack Russells are a waste of fur. (just my NVHO). Find out the dog's natural characteristics and likely good or not so good habits. Golden Retrievers are usually a great and safe choice - happy to go hiking, chase a ball, or lie on the couch. But they shed enough to weave a golden blanket every week, and tend to be cancer-prone. Labs are the most popular dog around right now, but not all labs are the same. If they're from a real working line, they take a lot of effort to keep them from getting bored and chewing the furniture. Surprising to some, retired/rescued Greyhounds usually make great pets. Think of a couch potato that can run 40 miles an hour. They weigh generally under 50 pounds and although they look sort of large walking around, they really do curl up into a small space.
Most dogs can learn to get along with any cats in the family, particularly if they start living with cats when they're pups. Do a lot of research on what characteristics you want and search carefully. Wouldn't hurt to get a knowledgeable dog person to help in the search.
Or just go to the local shelter and pick the first one that comes up to you. Believe it or not that has sometimes resulted in some good relationships. I wouldn't rely on that myself, though.